END OF LIFE CLARITY
Making sure the important things are clear before they’re needed.
This is about making sure the important information is easy to find and the people around you know what to do when it matters most.
And it is not about expecting the worst. It’s about knowing your life is organised in a way that reflects you. And when you live abroad, that matters even more. Different legal systems, different procedures, and different assumptions about what happens next can make things more complicated than people realize.
That’s why I focus on three areas:
Documents & Legacy – your wishes, information, and practical arrangements in one place
Serious illness – support when conversations, decisions, and priorities begin to change
End-of-life presence – calm, human support during the final stage of life
DOCUMENTS & LEGACY CLARITY
For people who want the practical side of life sorted out before it’s needed.
Get it sorted. Then get on with living.
You don’t need to spend your life thinking about what might happen one day. That’s rather the point.
We get the important things clear, make the decisions that need making and put the practical side in order. You choose how much of it you want to do yourself and how much you’d like me to take care of.
THREE WAYS TO GET THERE
CLARITY ESSENTIALS
€345
For getting the important things properly sorted.
Together, we look at what matters to you, what you already have in place and what still needs attention. We work through the decisions and practical arrangements together, so your wishes are clear and the right people know what they need to know.
WHAT’S INCLUDED
◦ Free introductory Clarity Call
◦ Personal review of your situation
◦ Guidance through the decisions and practical arrangements
◦ Templates and practical materials for what you need
◦ Clear guidance on what to keep, where to keep it and who needs to know
◦ A final overview of anything still left to do
WHEN WE’RE DONE
Your affairs are in order. Your wishes are clear, the right people know what they need to know, and you can get on with living knowing you’ve taken care of it.
CLARITY
COMPLETE
€495
For having everything brought together and organised for you.
Everything in Clarity Essentials is included. Then we take it a step further and look at the wider practical information someone may need to find or understand.
I bring it all together for you in your personalised Clarity Dossier.
WHAT’S INCLUDED
◦ Everything in Clarity Essentials
◦ A deeper inventory of your personal and practical information
◦ Your personalised Clarity Dossier
◦ Relevant documents organised and clearly referenced
◦ Clear information about where important originals and private information are kept
◦ Prepared pages for information you need to add or update yourself
◦ Printing, organising and assembling your physical dossier
WHEN WE’RE DONE
Your affairs are in order and the practical details of your life are organised in one clear place. Instead of information being scattered across files, drawers, devices and different people, there is one place to start.
CLARITY
SUPPORT
tailored
For when you want help putting your plans in place.
Sometimes knowing what you want is only the beginning. There may be things you want to arrange in advance, questions that need researching, or people and organisations that need contacting. This is where I can take some of that work off your hands.
WHAT SUPPORT CAN INCLUDE
◦ Researching the options available for your specific wishes
◦ Contacting funeral homes, insurers and other organisations
◦ Finding professionals or services that fit what you want
◦ Exploring funeral, burial or other arrangements in advance
◦ Helping coordinate the people involved
◦ Making sure agreed arrangements and contact details are clearly documented
◦ Practical help with other things you would rather not arrange yourself
WHEN WE’RE DONE
Your wishes aren’t just written down. You know what is possible, who to contact and what has already been arranged. The practical pieces are in place, so the plan can actually work when it’s needed.
Pricing is tailored to the support you need.
If you want a clearer picture first
Take the Clarity Check.
It only takes a few minutes and can help you see what’s already covered
and what may still need attention.
SUPPORT DURING SERIOUS ILLNESS
Support for individuals and families when illness changes what daily life looks like.
When recovery is no longer the most likely outcome, conversations that were easy to avoid suddenly become important. What someone wants. What people need to know. How to be together in a different way.
I offer a space to talk things through, look at practical questions, and bring a little more calm and clarity to a difficult time. Not to fix anything, but to help you find your footing in the middle of it.
This can be for you, or for someone you love.
If you’d like to talk things through, you’re welcome to reach out.
END OF LIFE PRESENCE
Support for the period when practical planning is no longer the priority.
At some point, the focus shifts. What matters then is presence. Calm. Clear communication. Someone who is not afraid of what is happening.
Sometimes that means sitting at the bedside. Sometimes it means conversation. Sometimes it means silence. And sometimes it means helping with practical things so family can simply be together.
This support is for both the person who is ill and the people around them.
CONNECT
If this feels relevant for you
or someone close to you,
you’re welcome to reach out.
We can begin with a simple conversation
and see what would be supportive.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
When you live abroad, more than one country may be involved.
The local system will usually apply first, but family members in another country may also need to make decisions or handle practical matters. Important documents may be stored elsewhere or written in a different language. And the assumptions people make about what happens next are not always the same from one country to another.
In countries like Spain, practical decisions often need to be made quickly. If your wishes are not clearly written down and easy to find, others may be left making important decisions under pressure.
Clarity does not remove grief, but it can prevent unnecessary confusion at an already difficult time.
In many cases, it is possible to choose that the inheritance law of your nationality applies to your estate, even if you live in Spain. This choice usually needs to be clearly stated in a valid will.
If no such choice is made, Spanish inheritance law may apply instead. This can affect how your estate is handled and what rules apply after your death.
A will from another country is not automatically invalid in Spain, but additional steps or coordination may still be needed.
Part of this work is helping you understand which rules may apply to your situation and when it may be useful to speak with a notary or legal professional.
No. This work does not constitute legal advice, and I do not draft legally binding documents.
My role is to help you clarify your wishes, organize your information, and understand which professional steps may be required. When you meet with a lawyer or notary, you do so prepared, structured, and informed.
This often makes the legal process simpler, more efficient, and more aligned with your intentions.
Yes, within the scope of non-medical support.
End-of-life presence means emotional and practical steadiness. Sitting at the bedside. Holding space. Supporting conversations. Offering calm structure for family members who may feel overwhelmed.
I do not replace nurses, doctors, or hospice care. Medical decisions and treatment remain with healthcare professionals. My role is human support alongside that care.
Yes. Everything you share in this process is treated with discretion and respect.
You decide what is documented, how it is stored, and who has access to it. My role is to help you create clarity, not to hold or control your personal information.
Where required, this work follows applicable privacy and data protection regulations.
Each situation is different, especially when cross-border elements are involved.
Most people start with two to three sessions to get the core in place.
From there, we only continue if it feels useful.
After an initial conversation, I give you a clear proposal tailored to your situation.
No hidden steps. No open-ended commitments.
You’ll have your key documents, decisions, and wishes gathered in one clear place.
The right people will know what matters to you and what to do when it’s needed.
Something structured. Something reliable.
Something that reflects you.
If you’re not sure where you stand, the easiest place to begin is the Clarity Check.
It’s a short set of questions that helps you see what is already in place and what might still be missing.
From there, you can decide what feels like the right next step.